Zen Supermom: The Mental Fitness Podcast

Ep 162: How Generational Healing Helped Suzanne Stop Yelling in Just 3 Months

Alena Gomes Rodrigues Season 4 Episode 162

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Are you a mom who has tried therapy, CBT, parenting tips, or gentle parenting, and you are still yelling at your kids?

That was Suzanne’s story. She was a healthcare professional praised for her patience and calm before motherhood. But after two kids, sleep deprivation, moving houses, and the stress of the pandemic, she found herself stuck in the same yelling cycle she promised she would never repeat.

The turning point came when Suzanne discovered Intergenerational Developmental Trauma Repatterning (IDTR) - Alena’s unique method that combines trauma healing and mental fitness tools to rewire the nervous system at the root.

 In this episode you will learn:

  • Why CBT and talk therapy don’t stop yelling when you are dysregulated
  • How IDTR uncovered the generational trauma patterns that kept her stuck
  • Why kids learn emotional regulation by watching parents, not by listening to parenting scripts
  • The practical tools that helped Suzanne stay calm and stop snapping in just 3 months
  • How her children became more cooperative, emotionally healthy, and resilient once she shifted her patterns

This episode is for moms who feel guilty after yelling, who have tried every parenting hack and strategy, and who are ready for a deeper solution.

Discover why the fastest way to stop yelling is not about fixing your kids - it’s about healing yourself with Intergenerational Developmental Trauma Repatterning (IDTR). Listen or watch now and learn how real healing creates lasting change in your parenting and family life.

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About the Author:

Hi, I’m Alena, also known as the Mommy Tantrum Specialist and founder of the Zen Supermom program. Once upon a time, I was the mom yelling at her daughter before breakfast and crying behind a closed door before lunch. Now I help overwhelmed moms uncover and heal the hidden roots of their yelling, so they can lead their families with peace and clarity.

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