Zen Supermom: The Mental Fitness Podcast
I'm not a supermom. But I always wanted to be one and have it all: family, career/business that I love, AND the time for myself. But that ambition without proper stress resistance and resilience killed my mom (cancer at 48) and drove me to the edge of burnout twice. Only when I saw the disastrous effects of my anger, stress, and resentment on my little daughter, I knew I had to change... Since then, not only have I healed but I also helped thousands of other women all around the world through trauma-informed therapy and mental fitness training. And I decided to share the most vulnerable and valuable pieces of my and their journey here. Because if we got out of that dark, stuck place of feeling like a terrible mom, YOU CAN DO IT TOO. So choose the episode that speaks to you and tune in!
Zen Supermom: The Mental Fitness Podcast
Ep 161: Finding the Balance Between Gentle Parenting and Boundaries: Sanne’s Transformation
Can you set healthy boundaries without becoming too strict or too permissive? Can you stop yelling without letting your kids bulldoze over you?
This week’s Zen Supermom Podcast shares Sanne’s powerful journey. She was once a yelling mom stuck in guilt and overwhelm. After joining the Zen Supermom program, she broke free from the cycle, healed the root of her triggers, and found a way to parent with both love and boundaries.
Sanne’s transformation didn’t stop there. She became the first mom to ask Alena to train her in Intergenerational Developmental Trauma Repatterning (IDTR) — Alena’s unique method that combines trauma healing and mental fitness to rewire the nervous system. Now Sanne is a certified trauma-informed coach helping other moms break generational cycles too.
In this episode you will learn:
- Why gentle parenting without healing can turn into people-pleasing
- How Sanne stopped yelling and started holding healthy, safe boundaries
- The role of IDTR in rewiring generational trauma patterns
- A behind-the-scenes look at her bedtime routine with her two boys
- How to find the balance between calm connection and firm leadership as a parent
This story is for moms who want to stop yelling, set boundaries without guilt, and raise emotionally resilient kids without repeating the patterns they grew up with. Watch or listen now and see how Sanne transformed her family life — and her career — with IDTR.
Hi, I’m Alena - founder of Zen Supermom and creator of the IDTR method (Intergenerational Developmental Trauma Repatterning).
I work with thoughtful, committed parents who have already tried to understand themselves - and still find themselves reacting under pressure in ways they don’t want.
My work focuses on changing the underlying pattern that formed early, shows up in the nervous system under stress, and gets passed on to the next generation unless addressed as a whole.
🎧 Start here – Mommy Tantrum Session
A short orientation to understand what’s really driving your reactions with your kids — and what to do next.
👉 Watch the Mommy Tantrum Session
📚 My book – I Yelled, I Cried, I Healed
Get the Zen Supermom book here:
👉 I YELLED, I CRIED, I HEALED (book on Amazon.com)
More about me & my work:
👉 https://www.alenagomesrodrigues.com
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